There Is A National Cat Lady Day!

April 19 is National Cat Lady Day. My day!

When Tiger Lily rescued me, my mother was a little concerned. I grew up on a farm, and all of our (many) cats lived outside, took shelter in a number of barns and other outbuildings, and were fantastic mousers.

I lived in the city. Mom said, “What are you going to do with a cat?” I don’t remember my answer, but Tiger Lily came, and within a few months – unrelated, this was already in the works – we moved from the city to a home very close to the family farm. I was never going to let Tiger Lily outside without a leash, because the many cats from my childhood typically died on the road. The same road that now runs in front of my house.

So there I was. A grown up farm girl with an indoor cat.

Two years after my initial rescue, I was rescued by another ball of fur, Little Socks, who first tried to rescue my Aunt Mary. Aunt Mary was beyond saving, but she knew I was amenable, and she introduced the two of us.

By now, my mother was nearing apoplexy. She said, “Another one?”

I smiled.

Two years later, a friend begged me to take a look at three abandoned kittens and please take one. I met them. They were playing together, running and jumping. Two dilute calico girls and a gray long-haired boy. At one point they sat in a row and looked up at me. I pointed and went down the row. Kali, Ko and Mo were my newest saviors.

I believe it was at this point that my mother said, “You’re going to be a 90-year-old old maid with a house full of cats!”

The old maid part was classic. I was already in my fifties and never married, so the fact that I could live to be 90 and never marry was a given. But a house full of cats? “Really, Mom, get a grip.”

And now I have seven. Actually, ten lovelies have been a part of my life. Sadly, three wait for me on that Rainbow Bridge, Tiger Lily, Ko and Mo. But…seven at a time is a lot!

My mother was always right.

Yes, I Am A Cat Lady

This website validates me. Of course, the site starts off asking all of us to admit to being “crazy” cat ladies. Well, it’s not National Crazy Cat Lady Day. It’s National Cat Lady Day. I would never admit to being crazy!

I might, however, live up to this label: “old maid spinsters who wear frumpy sweaters and don’t get out enough.”

From several websites, including the one cited above, comes this information regarding the establishment of the day. “Founded by CatCon creator, Susan Michals, National Cat Lady Day is meant to emphasize the modern Cat Lady as a powerful, independent and caring figure who’s not defined solely by the furry company she keeps, or how many cats she may have.”

I guess that’s true of me, but typically, people define me by the furry company I keep and the number of cats that I have.

It doesn’t hurt that 99% of my (now regular part of my wardrobe) face masks are cat-related.

How To Celebrate The Day

Cat ladies like me don’t need to be told how to celebrate a day with cats. Any day with cats. But since the above-mentioned website had some ideas, I’m sharing.

  1. Start the morning off on the right paw. Do some yoga with your cat. Just don’t call it Downward Facing Dog in their presence.
  2. Get a huff of your cat’s fluff. Because cats smell good. And cat huffing is definitely a thing.
  3. Treat yourself to a cat-purr-cino before your cat can steal a sip! Maybe she’s born with it. Maybe it’s caffeine. And, like, three cats.
  4. Remember that some of the most fashionable women were cat ladies. “I’ve always been mad about cats,” said Vivien Leigh. She was best known for starring in the 1939 adaptation of Gone with the Wind.
  5. Choreograph a dance routine featuring you and your cat. We know you’ve got the moves. This is especially fun right meow with many of us being stuck at home thanks to the coronavirus!
  6. Take a break and blow some bubbles with your cat. Because why not?
  7. Celebrate with your fellow cat ladies! Put on your best feline fashion and get ready to paw-ty.
  8. Post one of the million photos you have of your cat on Instagram (or Facebook or Twitter). The world needs to know who you are, and who your cats are!
  9. If you’re a cat lady sans the cat, visit a cat cafe or your local shelter and pet some cats! You won’t regret it, and the kitties in the shelter will love some good company. Note: while you might not be able to visit these kitties in person right now due to social distancing restrictions, they can still use your help. Consider reaching out to your local shelter or animal rescue to see how you can help.
  10. Drink some wine with your cat! Because it’s not drinking alone if it’s with your cat. (Actually, this is an excuse I use often!)

In Closing

Okay. I didn’t need the suggestions. As a matter of fact, as I type this, the sun is shining on a pretty spring day, and because I have cats, I installed bay windows on every side of the house with large ledges for sunning. Mr. Bean is on the window to my left, grooming himself in a sunbeam. Sassy Pants is sleeping on the lap desk, close enough that my arm is resting across her body as I type. Little Socks – she is now 19 years old – is sitting on my lap, pushing her head into my fingers as I type (because she loves to do it and it is so helpful). Speckles is sleeping on the left side of the sofa back and Kali is sleeping on the right. Ko, precious Ko, who is in serious decline (she and Kali are 17; they lost their brother Mo several years ago) is sleeping in her spot on the sofa, the spot she has slept on for the past few weeks, the spot that will be the last one for her in this home. Sigh. [A previous paragraph was updated, leaving Ko on the Rainbow Bridge.]

We cat ladies know how to grieve, too.

This is a Tiger Lily Approved Very Special Day And She Is Very Sad About Ko

Indiana (and other Midwest) State Fair Foods

Heart attack, anyone?

It’s not fair season yet, but I was at a loss for what to post, this being the end of a very long and strange year. I decided that, possibly, people had missed all of those foods that could have given them heart attacks last year, and perhaps they would want to prepare for the summer coming up.

Here is a look at some of the foods folks in Indiana love to eat at the state fair. For the most part, this will be list-only. For people in the Midwest, you know what I’m talkin’ about. For others, just the names might tell you how we roll….

Tried And True

Just a list, ma’am. Just a list.

  • Giant Lemon Shake-Up (or sweet tea)
  • Grilled Turkey Leg
  • Smoked BBQ Chicken
  • Grilled Sweet Corn dipped in Butter
  • Gourmet Grilled Cheese
  • Slaw-B-Q Sandwich
  • Corndogs (Deep-fried)
  • Funnel Cake (Deep-fried)
  • Funnel Cake Burger (Deep-fried)
  • Deep Fried Sauerkraut Balls (Deep-fried)
  • Fresh Potato Chips (Deep-fried)
  • Breaded Tenderloin (Deep-fried)
  • Vegetables (Deep-fried)
  • Pickles (Deep-fried)
  • Cheese (Deep-fried)
  • Hamburger or Cheeseburger on a Glazed Doughnut Bun (Deep-fried bun)

New Foods 2019/2020

These foods were advertised as new. Some debuted in 2019, but we didn’t have a 2020 fair.

  • Monroe’s Midwest Hero: fresh hand-breaded tenderloin with cheese, bacon, and a special sauce.
  • Bourbon Chicken: grilled chicken smothered in a sweet and tangy bourbon sauce with fresh cut broccoli (a vegetable that wasn’t deep-fried!), piled high on a bed of steamed cilantro rice.
  • Indiana Pork BBQ Split: served just like a banana split in a boat with three scoops of pulled pork, macaroni and cheese and cole slaw.
  • Lamb Taco: flour tortillas filled with Barbacoa lamb and served with pico, lettuce, onion and cilantro, finished off with cheese, sour cream and a side of salsa.
  • American Hero: a hoagie made with Virginia ham, salami, and pepperoni, topped with a lettuce/slaw mixture, covered in a freshly made special sauce and topped with slices of American and jalapeño cheese.
  • Bison Hush Puppies: hush puppies made from cornmeal batter, jalapeño and Red Frazier Bison, then deep fried and served with seasoned sour cream.
  • Hoosier Hometown Hash: two hash brown patties grilled and surrounded by four types of cheese: Muenster, pepper jack, cheddar and Swiss.
  • Poutine: freshly cut Idaho potatoes fried in Maple Leaf Farms duck fat, garnished with cheddar curd cheese nuggets and smothered in a very special Poutine secret recipe sauce. (Bacon Poutine is garnished with hickory smoked pepper bacon.)
  • Buffaloaded French Fries: a jumbo plate of French Fries topped with a blend of white meat chicken, cheddar cheese sauce, buffalo hot sauce and blue cheese, garnished with ranch dressing, real bacon bits and chives.
  • Angry Pretzel Poppers with Mad Ranch Sauce: diced jalapeños mixed in a made-from-scratch dough, then rolled in diced jalapeño, baked, buttered and salted, served with jalapeño ranch dressing.
  • Cajun Queen: Jambalaya rice with one, two or three meats (blackened chicken, New Orleans steak and Andouille Sausage) with grilled onions, grilled bell peppers, melted sharp cheddar cheese and hot sauce.
  • Relleno de Papa: a mashed potato ball filled with seasoned ground beef and fried golden brown, served with rice.
  • Shepherd’s Pie: seasoned ground lamb, vegetables and gravy topped with mashed potatoes and garnished with green onions.
  • The Rollin’ Mac Daddy Egg Roll: cheesy mac and cheese rolled into egg roll skin and deep-fried, with pulled BBQ turkey on top, served with BBQ sauce.
  • Duck Fat Fries: freshly cut Idaho potatoes fried in Maple Leaf Farms duck and served with secret recipe quack sauce.
  • The Hawaiian Haminator: ham and bacon mixed with BBQ Bacon Sauce and Yum Yum Sauce, served on a sesame seed bun and topped with provolone cheese and two pineapple slices.

Not Dead Yet?

Concentrate on desert.

Tried and True

  • Caramel Apple Elephant Ear
  • Birthday Cake Milkshake
  • Deep-fried Twinkie
  • Deep-fried Oreo
  • Deep-fried S’Mores
  • Deep-fried Chocolate Covered Strawberries
  • Deep-fried Butter
  • Deep-fried Chocolate-Covered Bacon

New

  • Blue Raspberry Lemon Twister: a twist on blue raspberry lemonade.
  • Deep Fried Cookie Ice Cream Sandwich: vanilla ice cream sandwiched between two chocolate chip cookies, dipped in funnel cake batter, deep fried, and garnished with powdered sugar and chocolate sauce.
  • Deep-Fried Sugar Cream Pie: a slice of sugar cream pie is deep fried and topped with whipped cream and drizzled chocolate. Why stop there? Go with pecan pie as well…..
  • Trifecta Hero Dreamsicle: a shakeup, slushy, and vanilla shake mashup. It’s blended with freshly squeezed lemons and limes, orange juice, simple syrup and French vanilla cream with a splash of water.
  • Caramel Coffee Milkshake: vanilla ice cream, caramel and coffee.

In Closing

Oh. My. Gosh. I used to love this stuff. These days, they would be hard to look at, much less watch anyone eat………

This is a Tiger Lily Approved Way To End Up In The Hospital

Women’s History Month

To honor women, I share quotations from powerful women about how women can be powerful. Enjoy.

Feel The Power

I don’t want other people to decide who I am. I want to decide that for myself. Emma Watson

We need to reshape our own perception of how we view ourselves. We have to step up as women and take the lead. Beyoncé

A man told me that for a woman, I was very opinionated. I said, ‘For a man, you’re very ignorant.’ Anne Hathaway

Whenever one person stands up and says, ‘Wait a minute, this is wrong,’ it helps other people do the same. Gloria Steinem

The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any. Alice Walker

We realize the importance of our voices only when we are silenced. Malala Yousafzai

A woman is like a teabag – only in hot water do you realize how strong she is. Eleanor Roosevelt

It is a fact that when you change a girl’s life, you affect her vision of herself and her immediate world and the world that she will have an impact on. Oprah Winfrey

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less. Marie Curie

I am an example of what is possible when girls from the very beginning of their lives are loved and nurtured by people around them. I was surrounded by extraordinary women in my life who taught me about quiet strength and dignity. Michelle Obama

The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud. Coco Chanel

We still think of a powerful man as a born leader and a powerful woman as an anomaly. Margaret Atwood

The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing how we are. Imagine how much happier we would be, how much freer to be our true individual selves, if we didn’t have the weight of gender expectations. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

The success of every woman should be the inspiration to another. We should raise each other up. Make sure you’re very courageous: be strong, be extremely kind, and above all be humble. Serena Williams

When women and girls are empowered to participate fully in society, everyone benefits. Melinda Gates

I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear. Rosa Parks

Life shrinks or expands in proportion with one’s courage. Anaïs Nin

I just love bossy women. I could be around them all day. To me, bossy is not a pejorative term at all. It means somebody’s passionate and engaged and ambitious and doesn’t mind learning. Amy Poehler

Whatever the problem, be part of the solution. Don’t just sit around raising questions and pointing out obstacles. Tina Fey

We believe that equal means equal, and that’s true in the workplace, it’s true in marriage, it’s true ever place. Elizabeth Warren

Every day as I get older, I appreciate women more and more. When you’re between the ages of 15 and 19, maybe you see women as competition, as opposed to lifesavers and people that hold your hand and have experienced pretty much everything that you have. So the more women in my life, the better. Adele

I do know one thing about me: I don’t measure myself by others’ expectations or let others define my worth. Sonia Sotomayor

Freeing yourself was one thing; claiming ownership of that freed self was another. Toni Morrison

Never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and deserving of every chance in the world to pursue your dreams. Hillary Clinton

Remember, no effort that we make to attain something beautiful is ever lost. Helen Keller

Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’! Audrey Hepburn

Never limit yourself because of others’ limited imagination; never limit others because of your own limited imagination. Mae Jemison

If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not making decisions. Catherine Cook

Women will have achieved true equality when men share with them the responsibility of bringing up the next generation. Ruth Bader Ginsburg

The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn. Gloria Steinem

And Now … Breaking Barriers …

On Breaking Barriers: “My mother would look at me and she’d say, ‘Kamala, you may be the first to do many things, but make sure you are not the last,'” Harris said during a lecture at Spelman College, recalling the motto that’s guided her life. “That’s why breaking those barriers is worth it. As much as anything else, it is also to create that path for those who will come after us.”

Tiger Lily Approves Of All Women.

Food For Your Soul

In honor of Black History Month, I am going to attempt to present food that is good for your soul. Because I do not want to co-opt the culture, I borrow (steal with citations!) from authors that do not.

Good For Your Body, Good For Your Soul

From this website, I gathered several recipes that have been modified for healthier living. The author explains the origins of African American soul food, from the left-overs off the masters’ tables to the foods that were available to them to grow and gather. To make the foods healthier for the 21st Century, she suggests using “rich, colorful foods like beans, fruits, whole grains, and vegetables that are rich in nutrients and low in unhealthy fats,” and suggested using “colorful spices like paprika, nutmeg, cinnamon, and ginger.”

Food From The African Diaspora

From another author and another website, I pulled this introduction. “…you can tell a lot about a culture and its history by exploring its food. What is now typically called “soul food” had its roots in African staples merged with the inexpensive foods that were given to African-American slaves. In current times, there are a variety of foods eaten by Black people – from healthy African-influenced classics to food influences from other cultures. … I enjoy being able to share food and recipes from the African diaspora. As such, I am sharing some of my favorite African, Caribbean and southern “soul food” as Black History Month recipes.”

African

Caribbean

Southern

From 28 Bloggers

This virtual potluck … is made up of 28 bloggers who’ve each created one dish for the occasion. … You can try a new dish every day this month. And [they are] here for the diverse cuisines featuring African, Caribbean, Southern, and Creole recipes.”

Go to the website for links to the recipes. You’ll see photos of all, and, well, good luck not making them all at the same time!

  • Pineapple Lemonade
  • Better-Than-Jiffy Cornbread from Scratch
  • Honey Turmeric Chicken
  • Southern-Style Mac and Cheese
  • Shrimp With a Spicy Cream Sauce
  • Sausage-Stuffed Collard Green Wraps
  • Smothered Turkey Wings
  • Carrot and Zucchini Noodles Stir Fry With Shrimp
  • Nigerian Jollof Rice
  • Red Lentil Soup With Roasted Okra
  • Olive-Oil-Braised Collard Greens
  • Braised Short Rib Meatloaf
  • Mofongo Relleno
  • Pilau Masala
  • Orange-Glazed Brussels Sprouts
  • Bourbon, Peach-Glazed Salmon
  • Creole Seafood Courtbouillon
  • Fresh Corn Pudding
  • Creamy Seafood Stew
  • Crawfish Étouffée)
  • Buttermilk Biscuits With Fried Chicken and Honey Tabasco
  • Sweet Almond Tea Cakes
  • Cinnamon Raisin Bread Pudding With Maple Glaze
  • Fried Sweet Potato Hand Pie
  • Candied Bourbon Peach Cobbler
  • Fried Peach Pies
  • Orange Bundt Cake With Vanilla Glaze
  • Blackberry Cobbler

In Closing

Salivating…..

This is a Tiger Lily Approved List Of Recipes And She Wants Some.

Groundhog Day!

This is Speckles Kitty Kat. I was told I could write today’s blog. I thought I would write about Groundhog Day. It’s tomorrow. Know how I know that? Mom got out her movie for tomorrow. It’s a silly one she watches every year. It stars this guy who keeps waking up over and over and over and it’s the same day. Nothing ever changes. And it’s in this town I can’t pronounce or spell in Pennsylvania. That’s pretty hard to spell, too. Eventually, he figures out how to “do life” right, and he wakes up the next day. It’s kind of confusing. I’ve seen the movie three or four times now, and every time I watch it, I learn something new.

Sources

Mom told me that if I’m going to talk about Groundhog Day, I have to give a source. Or two. Okay. Here’s two. You can learn more about it HERE and HERE.

The first one will tell you that it comes from German or Dutch populations in Pennsylvania, and it talks about that town I can’t spell. And it says that if the groundhog comes out and sees his shadow, there will be six more weeks of winter. But if he doesn’t see his shadow, spring will come early.

The second will tell you it started in 1887 – that’s a long time ago – and that the first one was in that town. This second source also tells about some Christian tradition of Candlemas. In dark times, the number of candles you would need would say how long winter would be. Oh, and that second source tells you all about groundhogs and their hibernation and suchlike that.

Okay. That’s enough sources.

Oh, no! One more. HERE. This one says that groundhogs live an average of six years. Could be less if they live on their own outside. If they live in a zoo or something, like that one in that town I can’t pronounce, it can be more. But that groundhog can’t be the same one from the first year. That’s been a long time, like I said. So the groundhogs they use are fake ones. They are all named Phil, but they could be boys or girls. Who knows? It’s all a lie.

Over And Over And Over

So, back to that movie, something happens over and over and over. That happens at my house, too. Like every day that Mom is home, at lunchtime, Mr. Bean will get up on the kitchen counter and prance around and then he’ll knock down a plastic food dish. Then another and another and another until Mom realizes he’s saying, “I’m hungry.” And she’ll say, “Mr. Bean says it’s time for lunch!” And we get to eat a snickle of a little something.

Or sometimes – like every blippin’ day – Ko will stand in front of the bathroom closet and cry and cry and cry to go in and Mom will say over and over, “No, Ko, you can’t go in there.” She should just get a grip! Ko. Not Mom.

And let’s talk about Kali. She has some “over and over and over” stuff, too. After breakfast every day, she grabs the best place on the sofa to sleep. And she doesn’t share. Ever.

And Sassy Pants? She drives me crazy! She gets the same seat on the going-up-to-the-up-high toy, and it’s the one that we all have to use to jump up to the up-high! All the time! We could be chillin’ in the up-high, looking down at everyone in the kitchen or the television room, but we have to jump on top of her, and she screams, and then we have to start chasing one another, and then it gets ugly. It’s all Sassy Pants’ fault.

So That’s How It Happens

Over and over and over again, life is just the same, day after day. And they made a movie about it, and a groundhog comes out and sees his shadow – or her – it could be a her – and it doesn’t make any difference anyway, because the first day of spring is six weeks away anyway.

In Closing

Humans are silly. That’s all I have to say.

This is a Tiger Lily Approved Post. Thank you, Speckles, for a well-thought-out piece.

I Have A Dream

Today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day.

March On Washington

On August 28, 1963, more than a quarter of a million people joined the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom.

The march was first conceptualized in 1941, when A. Phillip Randolph, a renowned labor leader, envisioned a “march for jobs” to protest racial discrimination. At the time, African Americans were systematically denied jobs created by President Franklin D. Roosevelt’s New Deal programs and jobs created by the defense industries of WWII.

He did not move forward with the march, when, in June 1941, the President signed the Fair Employment Practices Act. The Act established the Fair Employment Practice Commission (FEPC) to assure compliance.

Within five years, the FEPC dissolved. Each year, from 1945 until 1957, Congress considered and failed to pass a civil rights bill. Congress finally passed limited Civil Rights Acts in 1957 and 1960, but they offered only moderate gains.

Randolph, undeterred, decided to combine several causes into one mega-march, the March for Jobs and Freedom. He looked to the charismatic Dr. King to breathe new life into the cause. Working together, they built a coalition of the six most prominent civil rights groups of the era. The coordinating committee included:

  • Randolph, leader of the Brotherhood of Sleeping Car Porters;
  • King, Chairman of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC);
  • Roy Wilkins, Executive Secretary of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP);
  • James Farmer, founder of the Congress of Racial Equality (CORE);
  • John Lewis, President of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC); and
  • Whitney Young, Executive Director of the National Urban League.

Decades of intense lobbying of the President and Congress, capped by the March (over one quarter of a million people gathering peacefully on the National Mall) led finally to legislation. President Lyndon Johnson signed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 into law. One year later, he signed the National Voting Rights Act of 1965.

At the March, Dr. King was originally slated to speak for four minutes. He spoke for sixteen minutes, giving one of the most iconic speeches in history. The complete text of the speech follows. It can be found at this website, which also provides an audio recording of the original.

I Have A Dream

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we’ve come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we’ve come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the “unalienable Rights” of “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked “insufficient funds.”

But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so, we’ve come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.

We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God’s children.

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. And those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. And there will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.

The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom.

We cannot walk alone.

And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead.

We cannot turn back.

There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, “When will you be satisfied?” We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro’s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating: “For Whites Only.” We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until “justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from areas where your quest — quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.

Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.

And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of “interposition” and “nullification” – one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; “and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.”

This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.

With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

And this will be the day — this will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with new meaning:

My country ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring!

And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true.

And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.

Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.

Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania.

Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado.

Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.

But not only that:

Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.

Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.

Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi.

From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, and when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:

Free at last! Free at last!

Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!

Push ‘Reset’ For 2021

It’s over! 2020 is over! Can we move forward now?

Shake It Off

No matter what happens, this year has got to be better than last. Many of us – perhaps most or all of us – have a need to blast that year away and start fresh. Clean. New attitudes, new perspectives, a new you and a new me.

The cats and I have decided to go for it. We have some ideas of our own, but here are some from more of an expert than I. These suggestions stop short of “new year’s resolutions.”

12 Simple Ways

“Your attitude is like a box of crayons that color your world. Constantly color your picture gray, and your picture will always be bleak. Try adding some bright colors to the picture along with a little humor, and your picture will begin to lighten up.”  Allen Klein

From this website comes 12 simple ways to “hit the reset button on life.” If you go to the site, the explanations are broader than what is given here. I’m going to add a few COVID-related notes at the end of some of the suggestions. Sigh.

Add Color to Your Life

Add a shot of fresh and uplifting color to your life. Whether you pick up a bouquet of flowers at the store, add a fresh color to your wardrobe or buy a few new pillows or accessories to spice up a room in your home, choose a color that brings you joy, makes you smile and brightens your outlook.

Embrace Your Imperfections

[Step] back from any old “perfectionistic” ways, adopt a healthier mindset and embrace the authenticity of who you are with all your wonderful, beautiful, perfect imperfections.

Get Rid of Excess Baggage

A cluttered home, unfinished business in our lives or relationships that need work – all these things can trigger negative feelings and make us feel overwhelmed and stressed. Start small and slowly begin removing “stressors” from your life that are draining you of your energy and happiness. Even a few steps every day will make a difference.

Laugh

[Laughter is] the cheapest medicine around! So, whether you watch a funny movie, share a funny joke or go to lunch with someone who always makes you laugh, seek the humor in life every single day. Going out to lunch can be difficult these days, and it’s January. Where I live, it’s cold. Perhaps order take-out from a favorite restaurant – this is even better if you and your friend enjoy different food – you can order from different restaurants – and head to a park that may have an outdoor shelter. Bundle up.

Give Yourself Something to Look Forward To

Whether it’s something small like lunch with a friend or something big like a vacation to the beach, give yourself a much-needed lift by planning ahead and giving yourself something to look forward to every single day.

Get Outdoors

… start walking, take a hike with your kids, go on a bike ride or join your neighbor when they walk the dog. The fresh air in your lungs will do far more for your mindset and outlook on life than it will for your body – although you’ll be doing your body good too – so, do yourself a big favor and make a play date with the great outdoors.

Start a Project…Any Project

… neuroscience has found that when we finish tasks we actually get a dopamine rush. So, now’s a perfect time. Pick a project… any project, and get started. Set aside the constant barrage of interruptions and focus on how great you’ll feel when you can finally check it off your mental to-do list. Anyway, let’s face it, finishing feels good!

Bring in the Sunshine

The sunlight improves our mood, relieves stress, helps us sleep better and can treat seasonal depression caused by lack of sunlight in the winter. So, go ahead, pull back the curtains, open the blinds, slide back the sunroof and enjoy all the benefits the sun has to offer.

Spend Time with Friends

Being with friends we care about, even if it’s a quick cup of coffee once or twice a month, can motivate us, help re-energize our spirit, challenge us when we need it and help us cope when life gets tough. So, take a break from life, scratch solo and call a friend. Find a place to meet outdoors, or in an open space with lots of room (open a couple of windows). Or master the magic of Zoom or other related technologies.

Buy Yourself A Pick-Me-Up Present

Life is stressful… in the midst of our busy lives, it feels really good to take the focus off of everyone and everything else and focus on ourselves – even if it is just for a little while.

Crank Up the Music

… brain functions such as learning, memory and even auditory processing have been known to show improvement when music is part of our daily life. So, the next time you’re feeling down or simply need a good reason to get your toes tappin’, crank up the tunes, close your eyes and sing those lyrics at the top of your lungs.

Unplug

Browsing through a thread of texts or viewing images of a Facebook friend’s recent trip to Jamaica might be fine on occasion, but if your downtime is spent keeping up with other people’s lives through social media, it might be time to put your phone down (far enough away so you can’t hear the “ding” of the texts coming in) and enjoy more human interaction. Consider it a healthy and refreshing “detox” to make yourself a better “you.”

In Closing

It’s never too late for a do-over. Hit that reset button and never look back.

This is a Tiger Lily Approved Way To Approach Life In 2021.

Cookies!

As a rule, I’m not a party person. Not even during the holiday season. There is one party I like to attend, though. The cookie party! Invitations are sent out, RSVPs received, numbers of cookie-bakers tallied, and everyone makes enough to share.

The host/ess can determine the number. A half dozen per participant is typical. For example, if 20 cookie bakers are coming, make enough for each person (the 19 others, because, if you did your math correctly, you are one of the 20) to receive six of your cookies. Again, doing the math, that is 114. You can take more to share…

If you take your cookies on a pretty plate, be sure to have another container (or two, that’s a lot of cookies) to take your haul home.

All that being said, this entire post will be dedicated to the cookie lovers among us.

From The Food Network

https://www.foodnetwork.com/holidays-and-parties/photos/top-holiday-cookies

How can you choose from just one or two cookbooks? This site has over 100 recipes. For this site, you click on each picture to get more information. Unlike the other sites referenced here (which are one page, just keep scrolling), this one takes a little time to navigate. I pulled out a few interesting ones.

The photos come complete with serving suggestions. They are beautiful…. The recipes also include candies.

Try reindeer mask cookies, penguin slice-and-bake, eggnog melt away, peppermint meringues (they look like red, pink and white Hershey kisses), M&M magic bars, Ree Drummond’s favorite Christmas cookies, rosemary chocolate chip shortbread, Kentucky pecan bars, gingerbread reindeer, Christmas tree cookie forest (a decorative treat), no-bake sticky toffee balls, classic shortbread, Katie Lee’s no-bake chocolate-peanut butter cookies, cornmeal wreaths, cinnamon-spiced hot chocolate cookies, Christmas citrus squares, peanut butter nanaimo bars (from Canada).

Each cookie is beautiful and would be a hit at any gathering.

From Good Housekeeping

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/christmas-ideas/g2943/christmas-cookies/

Good Housekeeping offers 79 recipes. I wonder how they arrived at that number….

The site concentrates on teaching you how to ice and decorate cookies, from easy classic methods to elaborate showstoppers.  It also goes into cookies as gifts.

I’m not even going to bother giving you a list. If you want to make beautiful, unique cookies for your family, a celebration, or for gifts, this is the site for you. Check it out.

I mean, really, these photos are amazing. Scroll down to #63 to see the partridge cookies.

Wow.

From Sally’s Baking Addiction

https://sallysbakingaddiction.com/50-favorite-christmas-cookie-recipes/

This site has over 50 recipes, mostly cookies but also some candies.

She starts with a classic gingerbread cookie and gives several hints and tips about making them perfectly.

She has a section for sugar cookies with tips on icing and decorating. This section includes a video tutorial. She really wants to teach you to be an expert in the kitchen!

Her “classic” recipes have a twist. Toasted pecan snowball, toasted hazelnut slice ‘n’ bakes with milk chocolate, soft white chocolate chip molasses cookies, and mint chocolate brownies.

For coffee lovers, she has mocha cheesecake brownies, peppermint mocha cookies and mocha mint chocolate chunk.

She has salted caramel dark chocolate cookies and salted caramel chocolate chip cookies.

One of her candies is dark chocolate almond toffee. Looks delicious!

The list goes on….

From The Cookie Rookie

https://www.thecookierookie.com/10-holiday-cookies/

This site has 25 recipes, and they are supposed to be easy. Each recipe comes with a photo. Not only does this site has recipes, it walks a rookie cook through the basics: equipment needed, basic grocery supplies and tips to making the perfect cookie. At the end of the recipes, they give tips on storing, freezing and gift-giving.

The list starts with Santa’s Favorite Sugar Cookies. After that, the site diverges into sections:

  • Traditional Christmas Cookies (chocolate spritz, cranberry orange shortbread, soft gingerbread with rum glaze, sugar, iced butter, snickerdoodles)
  • Chocolate Christmas Cookies (chocolate gooey butter, s’mores, chocolate sugar, chocolate mint thumbprint, flourless hot chocolate, chocolate peppermint, chocolate thumbprint, fudgy brownie)
  • Unique Christmas Cookies (Nutella stuffed snowball, copycat Milano slice, peanut butter cup, M&M, oatmeal chocolate chip, peanut butter kiss, loaded salted caramel, strawberry cake mix, Snickers cookie bars, easy lemon meringue, Twix, soft molasses, M&M red velvet, ginger doozie, peanut butter)
  • Chocolate Chip Cookies (giant loaded, applesauce, cookie bars, soft & chewy)

From Bon Appetit

https://www.bonappetit.com/recipes/desserts/slideshow/cookies-cookies-cookies

These recipes look very upscale! Each recipe comes with a photograph. There are 89; here are a few to whet your “appetit”!

  • Zebra-Striped Shortbread Cookies (fancy-looking chocolate-vanilla swirl)
  • Tie-Dye Butter Cookies (iced with a swirl-n-dip method)
  • Raspberry Rugelach (bright, sweet-tart roll-ups)
  • Peanut Butter Paprika Cookies (soft, salty-sweet, chewy center, spiked with smoked paprika)
  • Black-and-White-and-Green Cookies (think Thin Mint meets New York’s black-and-white cookie)
  • Chocolate-Tahini Linzer Cookies (melted tahini with chocolate; glossy bittersweet filling; every kind of shape)
  • Pistachio Thumbprint Cookies (festive, green, creamy pistachio paste)
  • Morning Glory Breakfast Cookies (textured, dense, chewy)
  • Blood Orange and Poppy Polenta Shortbread Cookies (if you can’t find blood oranges, use naval)

You get the idea. Upscale, beautiful, delicious.

In Closing

Make them for a party; make them for your family; make them for yourself. And remember, with all of these recipes, you don’t have to limit yourself to making them over the holiday season. Just keep going. By next year, you’ll be about halfway through the list……..

This is a Tiger Lily Approved Post And She Demands Cookies.

Homemade Gifts For Everyone On Your List

Please consider this a companion piece to the blog submitted two weeks ago. That blog railed against the madness of all of the gift-buying and purchasing in general in this season.

Pretend You Can’t Afford Holiday Spending

This website – a gem – holds great philosophy and several really good ideas. You can search the web for many ideas, or go to a bookstore. Books. Books are great gifts, but you can also find books that have great ideas for homemade gifts. Anyway, proceeding with the philosophy from this website, here I go!

“Your friend holds a pretty, shiny gift, all wrapped in red paper with a glittery silver bow. From across the room, you watch. It’s finally the moment that she’s going to open it-something that you’ve been working on and anticipating giving for weeks. When she opens it and loves it your heart feels warm and happy. Any gift is fun to give, but isn’t it even more fun to give a handmade gift? Something you’ve put your own heart into? Something you hope she will love for a long time?

The site (referenced above) has photographs to go with the ideas, and additional information. I am going to list just a few here.

  • Skillet handle covers
  • Chap Stick key chains (or key chains with many helpful items)
  • Watermelon-shaped soap (or soaps of many varieties)
  • Marble-dipped coffee mugs
  • Oven mitts
  • Macrame wall hangings or plant hangers
  • Kitchen utensil sets
  • Planters
  • No sew flannel scarves and blankets
  • Candles
  • Coasters
  • Bookmarks

No, Really. Pretend You Can’t Afford Holiday Spending

This site has ideas as well, and they are billed as “inexpensive.”

  • Body scrub – you can make many “flavors” and use several cute bottles.
  • Personalized wooden hangers
  • Rice bag warmers
  • Monogrammed soap bottles
  • Kindle / iPad covers
  • Pillows / pillow covers
  • Lap desks
  • Cup cozies
  • Monogram weaths (a wreath that is actually a letter, a W or K or P or …. well, a monogram)
  • Everything / anything in a jar
  • “Hand print” apron
  • Monogram towels
  • Personalized coupon book (20 minute back rub, 1 prepared meal, evening of babysitting, afternoon of doing whatever you want, trip to favorite coffee shop, night off from doing dishes, offer to mow the lawn, etc.)
  • Homemade bath salts

Because You Really Can’t Afford Holiday Spending

We’re in a pandemic. This could last for a while. Save your money.

In Closing

Last thought, if you absolutely have to purchase gifts, and you are like me with truly no skills for making crafty things, consider looking at the community calendars in your region. Shop craft and vendor festivals and support small business owners. Great gifts, a variety, and you will support someone other than a major shopping center. Those may be more difficult to find this year, because, well, 2020.

This is a Tiger Lily Approved Gift Buying Strategy